Sometimes we put up boundaries when we talk to God, treating Him like an acquaintance rather than someone who knows every single thing about us---LITERALLY.
We lie to ourselves, thinking that God's rules are going to suffocate us. In reality, when we trust God and surrender different parts of our lives into His control, He persuades our hearts to desire the things that are TRULY good for us. Heard it over here from the HAPLOUS girls! Watch how WE learned how to surrender.